this all started from a off the wall comment. Ive always been somewhat dominant with my boyfriends in the past. I met [jim not his real name] and was not that crazy about him. But I will say he kept trying .. So after a few months I gave in and went out with him I teased him nonstop. After months [we have been together over two years now.) I asked him what he would give to sleep with me he said just about anything ! So I joklily said can I put you in a chaisty belt? He said ok. I then had to find one I had NO idea there are so many kinds of them. And I also found so many ideas! So why Iam here is to learn even more. So any ideas are welcome I really have become fond of the ruined orgasm it keeps me from having to milk him and I just tell him he did it to himself LOL!