Guys play with your bum part 2
I got a bit of flak over PM from another anal fan about my last post so let me state the obvious...
If you just drop pants and forcefully ram a finger up your ass its going to hurt like hell and not feel good. (duh)
If you are looking for some basic tips to playing with your bum its easy, though not as obvious as you might think.
There are 2 basic rules to playing with your bum whether you are fingering yourself for the first time or shoving 24 inches of silicone cock up your backdoor...
Rule #1
Use lube!
The more the better if you are just starting out. Unless your are a true zen master of buttsex, it wont happen without lube. Also some people have reactions to cheap lube when doing anal, usually a burning sensation but it could turn into an allergic reaction and nobody wants that... Ideally try as many sample lubes as you can for texture, body reaction, lifespan once applied, price, availability, compatibility with your toys and above all what gives you the most fun!
Rule #2
Start slowly!
Your bum is evolved to push stuff out, not take stuff in. It is much more delicate than your average vagina, it cant lube itself (see rule #1), and if you tear it you could be bleeding out your bum for over a year or even die from complications. Be VERY careful when starting out, let your body set the pace. If it hurts, stop. If it feels good keep going. That being said a well trained bum can take an incredible pounding, take longer dildos/cocks than a vagina and can unlock incredible sensations for both sexes (though men tend to benefit most for this).
P.s. Not quite rule #3 but if you use you finger on your bum or especially someone elses bum... TRIM YOUR NAILS! then either file them smooth or let them wear naturally for a few days before putting your finger inside.
Have fun and play safe Sneaky_31
If you just drop pants and forcefully ram a finger up your ass its going to hurt like hell and not feel good. (duh)
If you are looking for some basic tips to playing with your bum its easy, though not as obvious as you might think.
There are 2 basic rules to playing with your bum whether you are fingering yourself for the first time or shoving 24 inches of silicone cock up your backdoor...
Rule #1
Use lube!
The more the better if you are just starting out. Unless your are a true zen master of buttsex, it wont happen without lube. Also some people have reactions to cheap lube when doing anal, usually a burning sensation but it could turn into an allergic reaction and nobody wants that... Ideally try as many sample lubes as you can for texture, body reaction, lifespan once applied, price, availability, compatibility with your toys and above all what gives you the most fun!
Rule #2
Start slowly!
Your bum is evolved to push stuff out, not take stuff in. It is much more delicate than your average vagina, it cant lube itself (see rule #1), and if you tear it you could be bleeding out your bum for over a year or even die from complications. Be VERY careful when starting out, let your body set the pace. If it hurts, stop. If it feels good keep going. That being said a well trained bum can take an incredible pounding, take longer dildos/cocks than a vagina and can unlock incredible sensations for both sexes (though men tend to benefit most for this).
P.s. Not quite rule #3 but if you use you finger on your bum or especially someone elses bum... TRIM YOUR NAILS! then either file them smooth or let them wear naturally for a few days before putting your finger inside.
Have fun and play safe Sneaky_31
7 years ago
