2021 Repost - What is with xHamster Doms
I didn't want to lose this to the 7 year rule so I'm going to go ahead and repost it now...
--
What is with xHamster 'Dom-wannabies'
First off, I genuinely believe my tagline is true...
Being a Master is like being a gentleman. If you have to tell people that you're one, you probably aren't.
Now, with that being said... What the hell is wrong with all these 'men' here who seem to think that barking orders in the 'comments' section of a girl's profile make them appear to be a genuine Dominant/Master?!
Have these men, and I use that term very lightly as they have not realized that having a penis doesn't make you a man, it makes you a dick until you can prove you're a man, really so little respect for the girl they are commenting to that they feel they can just caveman it? Newsflash, it's the 21st century! You can't just walk in, club a girl over the head with a club and drag her off as your own...
A Dominant must offer respect if they expect to get any back as respect isn't given, its earned through your actions and behavior. They must offer understanding, this isn't some computer on the other side it's a real person who has her own hopes, dreams, thoughts, and feelings that need to be understood before you have any hopes of saying you could even possibly be her Dominant. They must offer friendship, any D/s relationship that is built and stands solely on Bondage or Domination will fail, there must be more to it than just that...
There is more to being a Dominant than just barking orders and telling someone they have to give you, or post, nude pictures/videos of themselves and if these idiots can't understand that then they need to stop saying they are Doms or Masters, they give those of us who understand how things work a bad name.
--
What is with xHamster 'Dom-wannabies'
First off, I genuinely believe my tagline is true...
Being a Master is like being a gentleman. If you have to tell people that you're one, you probably aren't.
Now, with that being said... What the hell is wrong with all these 'men' here who seem to think that barking orders in the 'comments' section of a girl's profile make them appear to be a genuine Dominant/Master?!
Have these men, and I use that term very lightly as they have not realized that having a penis doesn't make you a man, it makes you a dick until you can prove you're a man, really so little respect for the girl they are commenting to that they feel they can just caveman it? Newsflash, it's the 21st century! You can't just walk in, club a girl over the head with a club and drag her off as your own...
A Dominant must offer respect if they expect to get any back as respect isn't given, its earned through your actions and behavior. They must offer understanding, this isn't some computer on the other side it's a real person who has her own hopes, dreams, thoughts, and feelings that need to be understood before you have any hopes of saying you could even possibly be her Dominant. They must offer friendship, any D/s relationship that is built and stands solely on Bondage or Domination will fail, there must be more to it than just that...
There is more to being a Dominant than just barking orders and telling someone they have to give you, or post, nude pictures/videos of themselves and if these idiots can't understand that then they need to stop saying they are Doms or Masters, they give those of us who understand how things work a bad name.
5 years ago
